Be available to someone to whom, in spite of your coexistence of several years, your availability still remains a matter of fortune…
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June 17, 2016 at 2:57 am
This is awesome! Very sweet!
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June 17, 2016 at 2:59 am
Thank you sooo muvh
June 17, 2016 at 7:54 am
True. Sometimes we grow apart from each other, but we should remain friends with them and get to know them differently then we would have before.
June 17, 2016 at 8:05 am
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June 17, 2016 at 12:32 pm
You’re right, but it takes two to tango. It should not be a one sided thing.
June 17, 2016 at 12:35 pm
Surely not. But one who will coexist for several years is obvious to be loyal. Isn’t my friend?
June 17, 2016 at 2:15 pm
Not all are loyal even after decades together.
June 17, 2016 at 2:17 pm
Yesss… After all every story does not end with ‘and they lived happily ever after’…
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June 17, 2016 at 12:27 pm
Hmmm! That should be a mutual commitment.
Yes of course!
June 17, 2016 at 6:23 pm
I’d like to add to this conversation. I came out of a relationship of 6 years and we grew apart. Sure it takes two to tango and even though I initiated the breakup due to her talking to another guy, there was more that went in the breakup, it was how I was treated, but mainly how I felt and treated myself.
What I come to learn is that we are mirror’s of ourselves and I made a conscious decision to make that change and she mutually agreed. It was real tough in the beginning and I went through heartache and I was afraid to approach woman in the beginning because I had been in a relationship with someone that wasn’t there. I was a mess. I kept on going out because staying in was like death.
And the fact that I am friends now with my ex, where before we were a big part of each others life is fine with me. It actually helped with my healing process after the break up. Just to speak to her after not hearing from her for a month and get off my chest what needed to be said. Not necessarily closure, but a sense of peace where I could move on from my life.
Now I’m feeling like I am in my 20s again and enjoying life. If I want to do something I do it. If I want to talk to someone I do it. Sometimes we get trapped by fear that we forget to live. And this is not how I want to live anymore. I’ve lived like that my whole life. Living in fear. Fear of how it would look and I missed out on many romantic opportunities because of it.
Some may last and loyalty is important. I was loyal to her to the very end of it. Loyalty is an attribute that is rarely seen anymore, but understand how men were truly wired. Men were meant to be animals in a sense of competition. That is why someone with Confidence does better then someone who doesn’t have the right attitude. It is why guys always wind up in the friend zone and genuine guys with Confidence get all the opportunities with women.
And bunchup, your right love is a mutual commitment and it is a dance. Like I heard before it is like a mirror, because we get what we project. If we project something negatively we get a negative response. It we react positive we get positive. Not all the times this happens. And that is the nature of the dance.
June 17, 2016 at 6:31 pm
Being loyal and being chained is surely not the same thing my friend. And it is obviously not a healthy relationship where one is imprisoned in the name of loyalty. My boyfriend lives exactly opposite side of the earth from where I belong and obviously he mixes up with many girls as a natural flow of life. I never felt any urge to ask him where were him or with whom he was. This is because I know, wherever he is, he is just beside me. All I’m trying to say that if a relationship is nourished from within, it will last for ever and ever…
June 17, 2016 at 6:34 pm
I’m going to write my response in my blog.
June 17, 2016 at 6:35 pm
Being loyal and being chained is surely not the same thing my friend. And it is obviously not a healthy relationship where one is imprisoned in the name of loyalty. My boyfriend lives exactly opposite side of the earth from where I belong and obviously he mixes up with many girls as a natural flow of life. I never felt any urge to ask him where were him or with whom he was. This is because I know, wherever
June 23, 2016 at 4:15 am
June 23, 2016 at 6:04 am
Thank you so much
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